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broken hearted

Posted by Unknown on 8:42 PM
i am not broken hearted right now, neither am i gonna talk about broken hearts.I just wanna talk about the situation when some people close to you who is broken hearted asked you for comfort.and some tricks and tips.

I hate when a friend of mine comes to me and talk when their broken hearted all drama queen and emo.
what do you want me to do??comfort you??swear at your ex??blame it on the situation?tell you that you were the one who's right??tell you that he was a jerk and that you deserve better??tell you that there is many fish in the sea??or  are you asking me out now??lol!

i just don't know what to do!!even if you blablabla tell me about your broken hearts experience,you won't get anything from me!!no!!what i will do though is to tell you how harsh reality is!!did you just got dumped?so what??everybody has experienced broken heart once in their life, and what did they do?they became stronger and more mature!!just get over it!move on!!!

here are some tricks and tips that will make you easier to get over with broken heart.And i am being realistic here.
the first step is to cry!cry a river!!!cry whether your a guy or a girl!!cry your heart out!!if you wanna attention and hugs, cry when there's a lot of people.but if you like solitude better.the bathroom and the toilet is a good place to cry!and is even better if they have mirrors, than you can see your face when you cry!pretty isn't it??

next, think about what you couldn't do when you were in a relationship and do it!!maybe you couldn't go climb mountains because he or she didn't like it?okay,.bad example.,hmm,.,maybe you can go hang out with your friends.you can spent more time alone in the couch watching marathons of the series that you wanna watch but couldn't before. I don't know!just think the things that you couldn't do before and do it!!!

finnally,party time!!!go out!!go meet someone new!go have new experiences!!dress pretty and go to the club.hang out with your friends and go party!!maybe you can try speed date?or online dating?or you can meet someone new when you accidentaly drop stuff and he pick it up for you (nah, that won't happen)
they say that the best way to get over past love is to have new love!!and you won't get new love if you shut yourself and be sorry about yourself!!just learn from past mistakes and move on!

the last tips that i wanna tell you guys and girls with a broken heart out there,is to be patient!yes patience is the key.to move on, it takes times and it's different for everyone.some may get over it for months,some for years and maybe some for seconds.just be patient and let time take all the work.

hope my tricks and trips helps you


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